You've been rejected by the opposite sex more often than your bowels have rejected curry. That doesn't mean you're a loser, it just means that you're different (and have a weak stomach). And "different" is not some urban dictionary term for "freak" or something, it simply refers to the fact that you are interesting. A reject from society, if you will. Walkin' your own path. Beating your own drum. And keeping clear of spicy foods.